tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2571558006810647972.post5051229939797984028..comments2023-11-03T06:15:18.117-07:00Comments on Four Angels Momma (most days): Until We Meet AgainDebrahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05328458241519464529noreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2571558006810647972.post-31001863376188946872008-05-19T20:46:00.000-07:002008-05-19T20:46:00.000-07:00What a sad thing to lose someone you love, and how...What a sad thing to lose someone you love, and how much sadder to have a rift within your family. I can sympathize with you there and I understand the dreams completely. I hope you are getting more rest and better dreams these days...Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08330901242810245004noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2571558006810647972.post-59101881855670242432008-05-11T10:33:00.000-07:002008-05-11T10:33:00.000-07:00Oh Debra... I am so sorry for all you are going th...Oh Debra... I am so sorry for all you are going through. I, too, am a peacemaker by nature. It is so hard when you cannot do what you are meant to do. It takes the grief to another level and you feel helpless. I am praying for you friend.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2571558006810647972.post-43083006265243518662008-05-11T06:31:00.000-07:002008-05-11T06:31:00.000-07:00Hang in there, Deb... hope today is a happy Mother...Hang in there, Deb... hope today is a happy Mother's Day for you. xxooIrene Lathamhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04905936104127707762noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2571558006810647972.post-7975644422468449132008-05-09T06:21:00.000-07:002008-05-09T06:21:00.000-07:00...Oh dear Debra, I am so at a loss for words - th......Oh dear Debra, I am so at a loss for words - this is one of those times when I wish words didn't have to suffice. I wish I could give you a look, touch your shoulder, give you a hug, share in a prayer...something other than typing mere words. While I've only met you via cyberspace my heart aches for what you are having to go thru right now.<BR/><BR/>...While you will never be able to return to that place where your brother is there to talk to or to touch, you are on a journey to a new place, a place where his memory and his spirit lives, in this place he will never go away... It will take time and tears and understanding to arrive at the new place but it will happen. I promise.<BR/><BR/>...And with the family issues, I know this may sound silly but sometimes it works (it has for me at various times :o). Take a piece of paper and a pen and write down what your family is doing that is ailing you - wad up the piece of paper with all your might and simply toss it in the waste basket! I have even gone as far as to stomp on the lil' wad of paper and throw it in the woodstove! Yeah, my family gets to me THAT much! lol... ;o) I know, I know, you're thinkin' I've flipped my lid but Debra it's worth a try... ;o)<BR/><BR/>...Either way, please keep your chin up and know that we are all here and praying for you and sending you lots o' hugs too!<BR/><BR/>...God bless you dear friend here's to nothing but good dreams from now on!... :o)tjhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15595340637449976534noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2571558006810647972.post-9311565223972159442008-05-08T21:02:00.000-07:002008-05-08T21:02:00.000-07:00You poor dear. My heart breaks just reading about ...You poor dear. My heart breaks just reading about all you are going through. Take care, dear friend. One step at a time.<BR/><BR/>{HUGS}Melissa @ The Inspired Roomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09711494549892860307noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2571558006810647972.post-51056391077992306212008-05-08T12:23:00.000-07:002008-05-08T12:23:00.000-07:00Oh Deb Dub,Wish I could give you a "Grammie hug". ...Oh Deb Dub,<BR/><BR/>Wish I could give you a "Grammie hug". I've been enjoying your poignant analogies of life during breaks from farmwork...this post really stabbed my heart tho.<BR/><BR/>I think our subconscious replays moments of life in dreams to see what emotions they evoke. After my daughter's brain was damaged at 3 by an illness, I dreamed she had fallen out of the back of my jeep, on the freeway going 70 mph., every night for mo. Once I realized my mind was "testing" to see how I felt about losing her because I REALLY loved her, damage and all, they went away.<BR/><BR/>Gut wrenching pain was actually a GOOD thing? Ironic how our brains work! Now, whenever I have a nightmare, I think, ok, what does this emotion prove?! <BR/><BR/>I just know the dreams keep coming back until you except and deal w/ them.<BR/><BR/>Does any of this make sense? Hope you don't mind me being a "grammie"!? <BR/><BR/>By the way, I loved your post about the roses...I'm in the "potpourri" stage; old petals, still usable! HUGS!!Grammie Hoffman in WAhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04339334139564390070noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2571558006810647972.post-49546830013788998602008-05-08T11:30:00.000-07:002008-05-08T11:30:00.000-07:00The pain of loss is one that we get numb to at cer...The pain of loss is one that we get numb to at certain times, but comes roaring back like a hungry lion when we least expect it.<BR/><BR/>I am sorry for your loss.Bogarthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03239349739202059474noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2571558006810647972.post-4060676644574473252008-05-08T07:52:00.000-07:002008-05-08T07:52:00.000-07:00Blessings for you and all your family as well,kari...Blessings for you and all your family as well,<BR/>kari & kijsakari and kijsahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01047434064728375340noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2571558006810647972.post-64646979043364821122008-05-08T06:29:00.000-07:002008-05-08T06:29:00.000-07:00Debbie, I am so sorry for your loss.Take care of y...Debbie, I am so sorry for your loss.<BR/><BR/>Take care of yourself.Preity Angel...https://www.blogger.com/profile/08546729858570141442noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2571558006810647972.post-75688929500872574122008-05-08T04:35:00.000-07:002008-05-08T04:35:00.000-07:0041 is way too young, and when a death causes a rif...41 is way too young, and when a death causes a rift, it's never ever good. I too am praying for better dreams and significant healing. <BR/><BR/><BR/>I've learned overtime, healing doesn't always mean the relationship is back on track, sometimes it means we've come to peace with what it is. <BR/><BR/>Hugs my friend.Daynahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00378574876984217892noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2571558006810647972.post-48163917702987852092008-05-06T21:03:00.000-07:002008-05-06T21:03:00.000-07:00big hugs to you my friend...I wish I could give yo...big hugs to you my friend...I wish I could give you one IRL, but a bloggy hug will have to do. I can completely understand your feelings about your family strife...I too am in the midst of a strife with a family member and I hate it...it is stupid and childish...and it is out of my hands now and I have had to let them go, out of my life, for my sanity...<BR/><BR/>Please take care of you self...email me if you want to talk, or if you want my phone number I can email it to you..Alisonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07609471622265969310noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2571558006810647972.post-15063302881206061982008-05-06T15:50:00.000-07:002008-05-06T15:50:00.000-07:00Debbie, You're dealing with some tough stuff in th...Debbie, You're dealing with some tough stuff in these last two posts. I'm sorry about all the losses. Too much.<BR/><BR/>Lovely picture of you and your handsome brother.Peggy Paynehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14504076672775821088noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2571558006810647972.post-56749722322543751072008-05-06T07:52:00.000-07:002008-05-06T07:52:00.000-07:00I am sorry for the loss of your brother. 41 is way...I am sorry for the loss of your brother. 41 is way too young. Was he a husband and father? My Dad died at 51, why are they taken so young? You have been through a lot. Hope you have sweet dreams tonightAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2571558006810647972.post-64429021449701271912008-05-06T04:15:00.000-07:002008-05-06T04:15:00.000-07:00hugs and prayershugs and prayersLaura ~Peach~https://www.blogger.com/profile/06436851234824883774noreply@blogger.com